[Originally written on this date in 2006]
A few days ago I received an e-mail from Jon thanking me for a great time last weekend, which totally made me blush since he was the one who had treated me and all. His communication skills are improving even if he doesn’t write much and has a habit of slipping into Carny Speak when bringing up certain topics. Being able to have such an open relationship now is doing wonderful things to him, particularly on the paranoia front, as he doesn’t request to sit facing the door and isn’t exhibiting the usual behavior that I have grown accustomed to.
He did promise that drugs were something to be left in the past, particularly since the emotions that were coursing through him were much more enjoyable. Recovering from addiction is a process and I understand it’s something he needs to do at his own pace, but I can see that he is really making an effort and that tells me he is serious about the commitment to get clean. That’s not to say he is going to be completely straight-edge or anything, as we still smoke when we are together and he is capable of drinking responsibly. It just means that we won’t be drag racing and I don’t have to scream down the highway at a random a.m. hour on account he shot too much dope and wanted to make sure I was there with him in case he died. Nights like that should be buried in the past as we continue to build a future together, and even though I’m aware that either sounds highly cliche or like I’m putting my faith in a pipe dream, it’s something I know we have both wanted for a very long time.
Relocating has only strengthened our friendship and when he talks about being with me on a permanent basis, I know he means every word from the bottom of his heart. When he says the ones that used to feel like they could only be whispered through the roar of the ocean, I can hear the passion behind them that used to be repressed for reasons that no longer matter. Being close to him, physically speaking, is when I feel safest, as though nothing else in the world matters and we are the only two people on this planet. Parting is not something that causes me heartache since I can talk to him whenever I want now, looking forward to when we are together again.
While it is certainly far too early for predictions, since I know better than to excitedly ramble about all the things I want to do and set myself up for disappointment, I have noticed a marked difference in the direction our relationship is taking. That term has been used casually here and there, but lately it has taken on a much deeper meaning that I understand how serious things are becoming. Do not want to get carried away with fantasies and all, but he is on my mind every day and I fall into thoughts of what it would be like if we were together all the time.
Need to search for affordable source of body jewelry, as I have had the urge to downsize a lot of what I wear for a long time now. Since this desire still remains, I believe it is something I should do, but there is no Unimax and I am unsure of where to even start looking for a place like it. Guess that means I have some on-line searching to do after practicing for my upcoming show at Axis Lounge.